Pre-marital sexual relationships - Page 2 - Pokemon Forum

Master Aqua · #16 10-31-2008, 10:23 PM

It' nature , we are animals we have cravings if people want to have sex they can, but they will have to face any adversce consiquence, meh i do not really agree with it but I would not try and arguee aaginst, it's peopoles choice what they want to do with there body.

Black Hawk · #17 11-01-2008, 03:30 AM

Hell, it's terrible. Only do it with your fiance so you can find out if they're good before you tie the knot. (I'm also saying this because I will never get any action. Ever. Not until I graduate from college and am so stinking rich I got 10's hanging from my limbs. Not until then. Ever. So much for high school being fun.)

Fire Away · #18 11-01-2008, 04:05 AM

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Originally Posted by ThEcHaMpIoNoFsApPhIrE

just save yourself. gosh, can't you ppl see that its a special thing and not something to just "throw away out of curiosity"?

Perhaps because your opinion =/= the world's?

As long as two people are consenting, I don't see what the fuss is about.

Tasteless · #19 11-01-2008, 05:11 AM

I'm not sure what the link between government contract and mating like animals is at all, anyways.

Cybernetic Ghost · #20 11-01-2008, 06:24 AM

I can't see a problem with it, casual or relationship wise.

The Maple Syrup Baptist · #21 11-01-2008, 06:33 AM

I can attest that it's MUCH better when you're in love.

MustangGT · #22 11-03-2008, 01:56 AM

The way I see it, if you want it, go get it. And don't be blinded by a girl that's all over you before you realize she's just a low class whor3...

scubasteveE · #23 11-03-2008, 11:34 PM

I personally think people should wait till they are married, but really it is their choice. Just don't have friends with benefits.......

Matt · #24 11-05-2008, 04:39 AM

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Originally Posted by Scuba Stevee

I personally think people should wait till they are married, but really it is their choice. Just don't have friends with benefits.......

And what's wrong with those? I've had them, it's like having a girlfriend without having to deal with the whining or the commitment.

Dr Scott · #25 11-06-2008, 01:49 AM

Let's keep this mature, children. We don't need to hear that you like having sex, or who you had it with, this is a DISCUSSION not the men's locker room. It's fine to say things like "I don't mind," but "lol i r hav luts so it r gud" isn't needed.

At any rate, I think that it's a much bigger deal with women, and this isn't sexism. With women ... it hurts and you're putting more trust with the guy.

I'd say wait until the right person on all counts, but with women make SURE you trust the guy, because if not it could be horrible ...

I've read somewhere that 80 some percent of women regret their first time.

Thanks for listening CHILLLDREN!

Deathspector · #26 11-06-2008, 01:52 PM

Sex is an intimate act.

What makes humans (and dolphins, actually) different from other animals is that we do it for pleasure and love aside from the obvious reproductive urges...

As far as I'm concerned, pre-marital sex is all fine as long as both parties consent to it, really do trust each other, know what the consequences are, and don't accidentally have a baby when they don't want one (when they do, it's something quite different). It also helps if both parties have achieved puberty...seriously.

So yes. Go for it...but just know what you're getting in to.

Deathspector

PS. Scott, I didn't say, "lol i r hav luts so it r gud". Am I a good boy? xP

Quillink · #27 11-07-2008, 08:15 AM

Meh the Bible's good enough reason for me.

I can wait.

scubasteveE · #28 11-10-2008, 10:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Matt

And what's wrong with those? I've had them, it's like having a girlfriend without having to deal with the whining or the commitment.

Well I have know people to be pretty messed up after them and to me it's just wrong. It could ruin relationships and ruin someone's reputation(Not much for a guy, more for women. You know the four letter word). I just think it shouldn't be done just for pleasure.

And more wisdom from Dr. Scott

Matt · #29 11-11-2008, 02:28 AM

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Originally Posted by Scuba Stevee

Well I have know people to be pretty messed up after them and to me it's just wrong. It could ruin relationships and ruin someone's reputation(Not much for a guy, more for women. You know the four letter word). I just think it shouldn't be done just for pleasure.

And more wisdom from Dr. Scott

Oft times the pleasure outweighs the "loss of reputation", and there may not be any loss of reputation or weakening of relationship at all. The girl and I are still very very close, but no longer sexually involved. We just had a little bit of fun for a little while. I live my life to be as happy and have the most fun as possible; I don't let dumb things like a temporary reputation or some book hold me back from living.

scubasteveE · #30 11-11-2008, 06:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Matt

Oft times the pleasure outweighs the "loss of reputation", and there may not be any loss of reputation or weakening of relationship at all. The girl and I are still very very close, but no longer sexually involved. We just had a little bit of fun for a little while. I live my life to be as happy and have the most fun as possible; I don't let dumb things like a temporary reputation or some book hold me back from living.

True that. I personal think things like reputation and pride are overrated, but other people think highly of them and can outcast people.

For example, In an episode of George Lopez, Carmen (his daughter) was going out with this boy and the boy started spreading rumors about how he slept with her and that's was all he wanted, the pleasure. He also said that was all that she wanted too, so all the students in the school started picking on her and some of the boys started asking her to sleep with them. It got so bad that George had to take her out of that school and transfer her to another.
Maybe reputation is not the right word; let’s say it's bad for someone's well being. And I never did say it always don't work out between the two people, I said it usually doesn't work out.

Also, I don't think the Bible is keeping me from living. (I presumed that you know I'm a Christian and you mean the Bible) I think it has good guidelines to live a good and pure life. And fyi, I choose to be absedent, the Bible doesn't make me.

Ignore my bad spelling, I'm have asleep