Should Sex be Exclusive? - Page 2 - Pokemon Forum

Fire Away · #16 12-21-2007, 02:41 AM

If it's consensual, I don't see who it's hurting, unless of course one or both (or more :x) of the people involved are already involved in a relationship, but that's a whole other set of moral questions, isn't it?

I believe that sex can be an expression of love and closeness, but also something that can be entered with the understanding that it's a good time and nothing more.

Pooka · #17 12-22-2007, 07:17 PM

Of course sex is fun but it should be done with caution, you can't just go around having sex with everything that moves. Like my ethics teacher said a while ago, "Sex is like a Rolls Royce. It needs to be driven carefully and slowly through empty streets, not hurtling through fields of debris, livestock and mud."

!CeMAn · #18 12-26-2007, 06:25 PM

This debate is pretty loaded in my opinion.

Of course a lot of people(not limited to young males) will think that sex is a blast and you should be able to have multiple partners and such. Who doesn't like variety?? But, in the same breath, because of the human brain and our emotions(like it was said, most animals only bump uglies to make offspring) sex isn't usually that way. People get jealous, diseases spread, etc. When you keep this kind of thing exclusive, you're avoiding an awful lot of pointless garbage. Besides who wants to know their partner is getting action with somebody else? It makes me sick to my stomach to think of my girl with anybody else.

For anybody who thinks you can have casual sex with multiple partners and have no consequences... it goes without saying: you're not a human, you're a dog.
No offense

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FemmeFatale · #19 01-02-2008, 03:04 AM

Sex should not be exclusive, however it should be selective.

Share yourself with own those who were built well enough to mentally and physically enjoy your level of pleasure. Don't waste your time on people who evolution should have cast aside eons ago, for it'll only continue to bring our species down.

Yet I see no reason to only have sex with one person, short of that person being the only one worthy of experiencing you.

I couldn't live with only one man. ;)

PokéJungle · #20 01-02-2008, 03:35 AM

Morally, I just like to have sex contained within a loving relationship. In my own little world people who love each other have sex as a way of reaffirming their committments to eachother (not necessarily marriage, more the idea of commitment in general).

But yeah. I think sex fo' fun is kind of crazy. And frankly us gays have the AIDS risk if you go too promisquous.

Haze · #21 01-02-2008, 05:15 AM

Both, Its basically only bad when you dont use protection, rape, and/ or prostitution. Some people wait until they're married, but its everyone's one call

pikachu25king · #22 01-05-2008, 02:24 AM

You need to wait till marriage, if you are smart.

FireflyK · #23 01-05-2008, 02:27 AM

Eh. I'm kinda neutral.

Some people CAN just have fun and come out of unchanged, boys and girls. Some fall for each other and end up together in a relationship. And of course, some get hurt. But that's part of life for a lot of people. ^^: Good judgement comes from making bad decisions and learning from 'em. And bad decisions come from bad judgement. Some people need to learn by doing, and that's their business. It's not something I would do, but I wouldn't look down on someone else at all for it, if it worked for them.

And technically, aids was made by someone who went... Er... Outside the species. >_>; It came from monkeys, after all. Ick.

Kenny_C.002 · #24 01-05-2008, 04:06 AM

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Originally Posted by FireflyK

Eh. I'm kinda neutral.

Some people CAN just have fun and come out of unchanged, boys and girls. Some fall for each other and end up together in a relationship. And of course, some get hurt. But that's part of life for a lot of people. ^^: Good judgement comes from making bad decisions and learning from 'em. And bad decisions come from bad judgement. Some people need to learn by doing, and that's their business. It's not something I would do, but I wouldn't look down on someone else at all for it, if it worked for them.

And technically, aids was made by someone who went... Er... Outside the species. >_>; It came from monkeys, after all. Ick.

Most considered that HIV came from the comsuption (i.e. eat) of monkeys rather than having sexual contact with monkeys, actually.

FireflyK · #25 01-05-2008, 04:09 AM

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Originally Posted by Kenny_C.002

Most considered that HIV came from the comsuption (i.e. eat) of monkeys rather than having sexual contact with monkeys, actually.

I'm pretty sure you can't get it from eating cooked food... And I doubt people were eating raw monkeys then, since it wasn't exactly the stone ages anymore.

I actually heard it was from someone who gotten bitten by a monkey, but that wouldn't work as well in a joke. ;)

spartan117 · #26 01-05-2008, 04:15 AM

I think sex should be only exclusive to a relationship. If everyone has sex with anyone they want then its just not natural....There has to be a special connection between two people before they can actually do it.

Cybernetic Ghost · #27 01-07-2008, 04:05 PM

Should it be exclusive to a relationship? Doesn't really matter to me, but I suppose I'll go with no. If someone wants it to be, thats fine. I could care less really. But if your IN a relationship, then yeah, it should be exclusive to that person, unless your both comfortable with swinging or something.

Matt · #28 01-08-2008, 12:12 AM

Whoever argues that sex is not fun is a liar.

I see no reason to disallow it as long as both partners give consent, and are willing to face any negative consequences.

spartan117 · #29 01-08-2008, 03:35 AM

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Originally Posted by Matt

Whoever argues that sex is not fun is a liar.

I see no reason to disallow it as long as both partners give consent, and are willing to face any negative consequences.

Yes but what if a couple has sex, the girl becomes pregnant and the guy leaves her? Then what should she do???.......Thats why theres marriage so people make commitments to help each other out but of course not everyone follows it.

Shiny Loser · #30 01-09-2008, 12:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Kenny_C.002

Most considered that HIV came from the comsuption (i.e. eat) of monkeys rather than having sexual contact with monkeys, actually.

The truth is it came from a vaccine that was extracted from a chimpanzee's liver who just happened to carry the disease. But I like thinking of it as a woman who just couldn't get any and had to resort to.... eh.