Re: The term "gay". -ANGER-
I myself am not gay or bisexual, but I agree with you, it is very derogatory. It is misused A LOT. I myself have even slipped and said something was so "gay" before, just because I hear my friends say it and I never thought much of it and that people would know I didn't mean the word, but its not true, it really can hurt people.
So yes, I agree with you that it should not be used to mean stupid or weird or bad, since it DOESNT MEAN those words.